Do You Need to Fake it to Make it?

August 15, 2010 · Posted in Success, Women in Business, assertive communication · 1 Comment 
Do you know that low self-esteem can sabotage your career success? In a recent article in Forbes Woman, author Laura Sinberg states that people with low self-esteem often unconsciously sabotage their careers. Sinberg quotes Lois Frankel, PhD, author of Nice Girls Don't Get The Corner Office. People with low self-esteem often try to remain under the radar screen because they don't want to be noticed, but especially in this… Continue reading | 1 Comment

The Language of Power

In her book, No Ceilings, No Walls, author Susan Colantuono says:

As essential as it is to understand the business of business, it is necessary but insufficient. You not only have to have business strategic and financial acumen, you must also be able to demonstrate it by using the language of power.

Susan talks about the language of power being the language of outcomes and the importance of stating… Continue reading

How to Be a Thought Leader

Last week I attended a panel discussion at Barclay’s in New York City on the topic of How to Be a Thought Leader. The panel included Nicki Gilmour, CEO of The Glass Hammer, Carol Hymowitz, Editorial Director of Forbes Woman, and Barbara Jones, of Editorial Director of Hyperion Books. The discussion focused on professional women and thought leadership. According to Wikipedia, A… Continue reading

What Do You Do When a Door of Opportunity Opens?

July 18, 2010 · Posted in Success, Women in Business, fear of failure · 1 Comment 
There has been a lot written recently about women’s innate ability to lead. One reason that is consistently mentioned is that women are more risk adverse than men. Many thought leaders believe that because women are more cautious, they make better decisions. I believe there is some validity in this especially if you look at the recent events on Wall Street. It’s only speculation of course, but there is a… Continue reading | 1 Comment

If You Don’t Raise Your Hand, You Won’t Be Called On

If you don’t raise your hand, you won’t be called on and maybe that’s a good thing; a good thing, that is, if you want to remain invisible and safe. After all, when you raise your hand, you are risking public failure. When  you raise your hand, you are sending a signal to everyone that you have the confidence to publicly state your opinion, volunteer for something, or ask a… Continue reading | 4 Comments

Does Your Nose Get Out of Joint?

Yesterday I attended a meeting for a local organization and we were discussing business as usual when a colleague of mine made the comment that someone’s “nose was out of joint” because of a certain interaction that had occurred earlier in the week. That got me thinking. What was the origin of this idiom and what actually happens when someone’s nose is out of joint?… Continue reading

How Do You Handle Compliments?

May 9, 2010 · Posted in Success, Women in Business · Comment 
Someone at work approaches you after a meeting and tells you that you did a really great job on a project. What do you say? Are you more likely to say, “Thank you. I worked very hard on that project and I am proud of how it all came together”?  Or do you say, “Oh, it was nothing”? A good friend tells you that you look very nice and they love your… Continue reading

You’ll Never Know Until You Ask

January 3, 2010 · Posted in Self Promotion, Success, Women in Business · Comment 
Is No really NO or is it an opportunity? Women are much more likely than men to take a "no" as a personal rejection and final answer. In fact, the fear of rejection will often keep us from asking for things we rightly deserve. Let's look at the situation of a salary negotiation or performance review. Perhaps we were expecting a large raise and only received a small one. How often will… Continue reading

The Benefits of Assertive Communication

October 3, 2009 · Posted in Communication, Women in Business · 1 Comment 
Assertive communication is speaking up appropriately for oneself while considering the needs, wants, and rights of others. The verbal characteristics of assertive communication are clear, direct, and honest statements of feelings and the use of "I" statements. We feel good about ourselves when we communicate assertively, but also, we must feel self-confident and good about ourselves to adopt this style. Often a lack of self-confidence and limiting beliefs around being assertive… Continue reading | 1 Comment

The “Yes, But” Mentality

September 27, 2009 · Posted in Self Promotion, Success, Women in Business, leadership · 1 Comment 
As women, we have a lifetime of mixed messages around becoming strong leaders and connecting with our innate talent and personal power. This often results in what I call the "yes, but" mentality. You instinctively know what to do BUT you don't do it. For example, you know you should do more to get out and promote your business, but you spend more of your time in the office hoping… Continue reading | 1 Comment

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